Dear: to people who hate me or my emails. Here's how I deal with negative people

Dear: to people who hate me or my emails.

September 17, 20247 min read

~ this is from one of my "Personal Philosophy" letters and also you might have seen it in my emails.

Hiiiiii, ❤️❤️❤️

Actually, I'm a hater too, when I meet nice people, that time, I'll be like super nice to them, to whoever hate me, of course, I'll hate them back. And, like I said, for who've known me, like I've said, I'm a big baby, act like one, think like one. Which is a big why I don't hide what I feel or think so obviously I think they are already know that, which is great. It's kinda like "great, now don't come near me, don't ever come in my social life, or any kind of life".

And, dear haters, if you see me in a place you can't reach, or I have a lot of people know me because of you.

Then, dear haters, thank you for being inspiration.

Here, what's I see so far

Why you did that?

If you don't like me why would you send an email to let me know that?

Okay, to people who don't know, I wrote this intentionally for people who used to subscribe my email list.

And, like I'm really curious but hey I also don't look for comments, or email replies similar like this again. Read this all before you said anything. But, by the end of reading everything, and you're still thinking sending that comment or email, then, bro, respect, totally. Because if it were me, I wouldn't ever in my life to read anything from someone I don't like. And, here's a thing, before I even reading the title, I won't see that, because if you don't like somebody, why would that appear in the inbox, or why would you even come this far kind of thing.

But hey, I also heard another thing, not sure where this from, but he said like this, that even you don't like that person, but if that person is somehow successful than you (I mean, not in life, cuz I believe success do define by so many different means).

For example, here, like that person is way do better than what you want to do, like step ahead, then you could try to learn one or two from that person. And, who knows, you might do better.

Oh, ok, continue what I said before.

Like, Im really curious why would they sent these things?

Here's what I got which I found very interesting and haha, the next haters, if you do something and I could see it, you might be my next inspiration.

I got this email that saying my emails are too much

Which is really funny, I gotta say. First of all, that person sent me an email saying that my emails is too much.

but here are my defense also clarify too haha

I do sent a lot of emails in these days.

  1. Personally, I do think they are great, and of course, it's totally bias, but hey, it's my emails, I do what I want😂.

  2. Back in the day, I would totally kill for these kind of emails, not offense, I do love what I'm receiving daily in my own personal inbox. But my email is kinda like a mix of my totally favourite thing that I would want to receive.

  3. I got different new subscribers daily, and I also don't them to miss it. So for them, it's new, for you, it's old, so by don't you either 1. check it to see anything news that excite you; 2. skip it.

  4. I'm pretty sure, some people would have charge for these info, so if you don't like me, or my emails, and don't grateful what I'm thinking for you, please go ahead, pay for those info. I'd grateful for those who have these paid membership!

Okay, back to that person and why I'm curious. I'm curious that why she sent me this just to tell me that she wanted to unsubscribe me? which is really funny. REALLY. In a lot of cases, my funny is like a sarcastic thing, and here funny, is a real funny.

Like why would you sending something or telling somebody that you are going to do something?

I mean, seriously, if you think of in real life, and imagine this:

"somebody hates you, and they come to you in face to face, and told you that "hey, I hate you".

I mean sure, if you were a child, I think we might all have done this, but hey, how old you are now? would you run to the teachers now? Okay, sometimes I do wish I could, and hey I realized one thing too, in my country, rarely if you meet a suck teach, but normally you wouldn't then, normally if somebody have bully, or some really troubles, you could tell teachers, but here, in where I'm staying right now, I don't think they would help.

okay, off the story again.

So ya, that girl just sent an email just told me that she unsubscribed because email is too much. I mean you must be near your phone alot, or open email alot too. But nobody would tell you that hey, you use your phone alot right? haha

And, here's what I told her, you might think it's mean, but in my stand point, it's more totally honest, and this honest thing, it's really have me seen a lot of funny thing, and realized this just something if they like it, they would, if they don't who care.

"u don't need to email to tell me that😂😂😂. Just unsubscribe it. I got nothing to say when you have to tell somebody that you unsubscribed. I don't need to email constantly in 24 hours then you don't need to subscribe me. Simple as that. Or you expecting something? Don't you think it just become a funny thing and it would be more ashamed for you? because you are telling me, you are expecting something? Nobody reading my email, and nobody would care you would unsubscribe me.😁"

Like I'm really curious, somebody else also answered the survey which saying pretty much similar thing. And, hey, don't forget (which is also the way i think too), you'd got a lot of haters during the way you got successful 😂. And the lovers, would come after those haters, haha.

For those who are having these similar like me as well. And, for me, and for those who are wanna-be, and to who are reading this too, and to haters, and to whoever think my answers are mean, then I allow me present myself and those are having this situation, so you can have this opinion, this comment, this reply, but we can't send to you the same? then it's no freaking way. When you sent that, you are telling me that you'd ready for something like, because the time you sent, don't you just already did the same thing that I did? The only different is you did it first.

Okay, enough of that, one more time, allow me to thanks whoever are reading to the end. At the end, it would be something that is my way of thanks to you. (P.S).

And, to haters, see this: 😆

And, I also got an email that sent full of hear symbol. Ahhhh which is so cute, and that person support me alot!! omg, I just thankful enough for these people, and you guys are just the best!

P.S Dear haters, i also can't thankful enough for you, because you inspired for these contents, and it brought me to know better people, who would understand me more, and hey hahah, more people know me because of you. So hey, thanks!

P.S.S. I wanna say to those who are new, and trying to do something new, that things are hard when you see there's not much going on, like for example, you're trying to get more followers, more buyers, no matter what it is. Just keep trying, because one day you would wake up and realized either a comment, reply that telling you, that you are doing great! or more followers than you ever want! so hey, keep going.

And, from bottom of my hear,

Wish you luck, Best wish to you, and Have a nice lovely day!

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